I know, I know... you shouldn't hate Bible verses (all of them being true and profitable and all that). But over the years this particular verse has left a sour taste in mouth. It's all I can do not to make a face whenever it's quoted. Which is a shame, because this verse is disastrously popular. I'm sure you've heard it. I've even it on TV-a Christian dating site uses it in their commercials: Psalm 37:4
"Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart."
Now before you all stone me as a heretic, let me explain why I am fighting the serious impulse to type "Yuck" after that. I don't object to the verse itself, but the way this particular verse is used. You know what I mean. Some well-intentioned person at church asks how such and such is going and when you admit that things aren't happening the way you'd like, they come back with "well just delight yourself in the Lord, and he'll give you the desires of your heart. Just make sure you're delighting in the Lord." By which the dating commercials (and a frightening ammount of church people) mean: "If you love Jesus enough, He'll give you whatever you want." Which is both a HORRIBLE way to encourage someone, and an ABSOLUTELY WRONG view of God. It's a band-aid wrapped in barbed-wire. However helpful the original intention, it's now going to do nothing but hurt. Let's see if we can unravel some of that barbed wire, shall we?
The thinking is not so different form that of the people groups NTM works to reach. Many unreached people groups are animists- they worship spirits. If you give the kind and amount of offering the spirits will give you a good harvest, or a healthy baby. All you have to do to get what you want is give just the right stuff to get whatever you want. Sound like anything you read a paragraph or so ago?
God is so much bigger than those spirits. He does not demand our sacrifices to earn His grace- isn't that the whole point of the Gospel? That we COULDN'T do anything to earn to God's favor? That's why Jesus came. That's why He died. That why He is our Savior. He has done it all, paid it all, provided it all. And He promises to "provide all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus" and "freely give us all things" and that "they that seek the Lord will not lack any good thing". AND that those who delight in Him will have the desires of their heart.
And God knows the desires of our hearts (after all, He's God, He knows everything, and knows it better than anyone else). So far we all agree right? Here's the twist: I think we frequently don't understand the desires of our hearts. We get focused on the means (that house, that relationship, that job, that ministry) instead of the ends (joy, security, peace). So often we, or at least I, get fixated on something I want so much, because (usually subcounsiosly) I think that ministry/person/place will give me peace. THAT however, is not the case. Peace, joy, security, love all come from God. And God, being God, may (and frequently does) have a very, very different means of giving us the end our hearts are truly craving.
And no matter who says otherwise- God can, will and does plan the very best way to give us the deepest, truest desire of our hearts.
Just don't be surprised if it doesn't look a thing like what you thought.